Projects Are Completed – We Are Ready!





we had a very very long list of winter projects to complete between November 2015 and March 18, 2016.  We can now proclaim that our winter projects are completed and we are ready for our first wedding tomorrow.

back of barn pano


It certainly helps that Mother Nature has given us a couple of beautiful warm weeks.  The lawn is green and the trees are beginning to hint of color.  We have added extra lighting to the back of the barn and revamped some of our landscaping too in order to accommodate a side window to the bar room for appetizer hour uses.

pasture pano

The sky is a beautiful blue today and many pear trees around the farm have begun to blossom.  I think this has been one of the prettiest years for the Bradford Pear trees as well as our farm pear trees.  This panoramic view comes from the angle of the large tin trolley doors at the back of the barn and looking north into the pasture.  The pasture off the left – the arbor down towards the pasture – and our new entry off to the right.


new entry


The new entry to the back of the barn gives a better perspective of the barn plus it gives a bit more space between any vendor unloading and your in-coming guests.  Besides having a logistic reason for its layout – it has a birdhouse area, our horse trough full of flowers, and an old sitting bench.

front pano

We have left no area untouched.  The farmhouse is primped and ready.  Ferns on the porch – flowers in various pots – and the lawn mowed just so.


ring and barn pano

Fresh mulch – Yellow Forsythia bush blooming – and even our blueberry bushes here and there are full of blooms.


barn pano

raised beds

Our farm is full of perennials that come back year after year and they are already popping up and coming to life again.  Queen Anne’s Lace is popping up all over the farm already – it will be no time before those lacey blossoms will be everywhere.  We have planted meany of our annual flowers like sunflowers and celosia hoping for an early appearance this year.  We have got raised bed number one planted with broccoli, cabbage, lettuces, and onions.

rock patio


Another winter project was our pear tree rock patio.  We have always loved our flagstone in this area but it has now been re-laid into concrete for a much cleaner look.  Love it!  We still have our garden areas on each side of it and it already is full of life with Lamb’s Ear, Grasses, Queen Anne’s Lace, and white Allysum.

pear blosoms

If you look closely you can see the white blossoms from our old pear trees blooming.  Our first wedding tomorrow will look as though we have painted the farm in lace because of so many pear trees all in bloom.


Inside – the biggie was concreting the floors.  They have that acid stain that gives it a truly antiqued effect.  We are very happy with our decision to concrete them though we debated back and forth for quite some time.  Women with their open toed shoes will forever be grateful to us.  No more little boys shuffling their feet in the wood shavings stirring up a dust cloud.  If you look closely at this panoramic photo, you can tell that we opened up more of the barn at the pasture end.  What use to store chairs, the decor room, and the bar – is now opened up for additional seating.  Our funky olive bucket pendent lights hang as chandeliers over our barnwood tables.  The bar has been scooted to a new home (far right) and it is actually being referred to as “The Watering Hole.”  Decor room is still available – it just has a new location.  There is actually a very long list of little things here and there that we have added this year which you may or may not even notice.  It is usually our “regulars”….our photographers typically, that seem to notice everything that we do since they too give attention to details – they just seem to notice.  grove ready


We worked all winter long to prepare for our brides.  We truly hope that all our work will bring many smiles to your faces.  Nature has been good to us this spring with lots of moisture and warm days.  The grass in the grove is such a beautiful hue of green – almost neon.


Tomorrow is the big day for our first bride – Leah.  Rain is expected tonight but will taper off by mid-morning.  Just enough rain to water all of our new plants and flowers.  What an exciting year ahead.  We are blessed and look forward to each and every bride.                                  ~ Margie

Dontcha’ Just Love Pinterest?

Oh, I am convinced that the world is a different place because of Pinterest.  It not only gives you ideas – but visualizes it for you and often shows you exactly how to do it.  It also gives you the opportunity to tout your own unique ideas.  I do have a pinterest page for The Barn at High Point Farms (be sure to check it out) so I wanted to take this opportunity to showcase some ideas that I want to try somehow this year (for the brides that I may be decorating for)…..or I want some of you DIY brides to try.  Some of these are poses that I am hoping your photographer will try.  So….here it goes.  Now….I do want your feedback on these… let me know which ones “you also like”    okay?


First up – this picture is adorable.  Do you reckon that our pony, Peanut Butter, would handle getting all dolled up for such a pose?


And here is one that I am trying to figure out where I can build me one of these wooden sunbursts.  Isn’t this stunning?


I am all about “all things vintage” and I love this infusion of either silver or gold.  These old vanity mirror trays are so beautiful….they add that touch of gold plus with the mirror on the bottom – it helps to make the various decor items pop.  Even the vintage colored bottles seem to showcase more.  A candle – votives – flowers….it just adds a very elegant and vintage flair.  I do have a small collection of them… hoping that somebody will love it too.  The old silver platters are also beautiful….it is just unique way to add vintage to your table decor items.  I love it when all of the tables don’t look cookie cutter alike….but in theme but slightly different.


Another decorating option is to use wood trays – wood boxes – garden boxes – etc. to hold  your decor….instead of our log rounds.  Do you like any of these ideas?  I love it when you compliment it with doilies ….or moss even and then especially the bits of vintage decor that the last one shows.  Each table would certainly look different than the next one!

Down the ceremony aisle….we have seen a lot more brides using log stumps instead of shepherd’s crooks….and even the brides hanging mason jars off of the edge of the chairs.  Here is another idea – the cute mini tin buckets with pretty ribbon – full of flowers…hanging off the edge of the chairs.


Here are some poses that certainly get your attention.  Which one catches your eye?

But our awesome photographers have made some amazing shots over the years.  Not only are these beautiful – but I like the location or the pose well enough to duplicate at future weddings.


And now more often than in earlier years, we see a craze for staging photo set ups – whether before the wedding or the day of the wedding or just as a promotional photo shoot.  These do require lots of forethought – lots more furniture, props, and accessories and much more time to stage and shoot…but the results is usually quite stunning and magazine worthy.  Here are  a few that catch my eye – both some that we have staged here or one’s that have caught my fancy.

We have added our own fair share of ideas to the pinterest world.  So many of our funky pendents, chandeliers, unique landscaping approaches, decorating quirks, and such have garnered many many “pins.”  Part of our ideas come from being thrifty – from learning to use somehow what we have – and some are pure divine inspiration.

One of the best things about keeping in touch with The Barn at High Point Farms’ pinterest page is not only do you get to see – to visualize some great ideas (mine as well as others that have intrigued me) but that you often get to see how and where to imitate this here at the farm.  And just for the interest of it all – here are three of the pinterest pictures that are continually pinned the most from  my huge pinterest pin collections.

So please leave me your comments for I relish to hear from you.                                                    ~ Margie

What Was Particularly Memorable About 2015?

As we finish up our winter projects and we begin to prepare for our first wedding of the season coming up soon – I took a moment to reflect on our last year.  I thought it might be interesting to share a few of the things that were particularly memorable about our 2015 weddings and brides.


  • We had a bride bring a piano to her “grove ceremony”…and that was a first.  I am sure there is more to the story but she was adamant to have the music from Pride and Prejudice played as her “coming down the aisle” selection….and as we all know and recognize that melody – ya’ gotta have a piano to do it just right.  Fortunately it was a gorgeous day for a wedding – which meant a wonderful day to delivery a precious piano to an outdoor wedding.  With a few decorations and a talented pianist, it was indeed a wonderful addition to a beautiful and unique wedding.


  • We had several brides who opted not to be in a  traditional wedding gown…not only just not a white or ivory gown but not a wedding dress per say at all.  I will also say that it certainly seemed to fit each of these brides…it just showed off their personalities.


  • We created a whole new website with a totally fresh format.  I’ve always been big on including lots of photos but the new look with its “slider images” seems to get more bang for our buck.  It has been well received.  They do say that a picture paints a thousand words and we need a thousand words to describe us.              


  • We saw a half dozen or more “foot-washings” as part of the ceremony.  If you are unfamiliar with it – it is where the bride and groom take turns sitting in a chair and allowing the other to wash their feet.  Why you say?  It symbolizes becoming humble and serving each other in the same way that Jesus washed the feet of His disciples….For a married couple to be – it in essence shows that you are committed to each other even during the muck and mud of life.  It really is a beautiful thing to witness. 


  •  It seemed to be the “year of the automobiles” as we had quite an assortment of them brought in for added photo ops or for a classy get-a-way.  Either way – I loved them all.



  • We had added a rustic arbor to our venue early Spring ’15 and it was quite a hit.


  • We were so honored to have received two rankings during the 2015 year – both from two highly popular online wedding blogs.  One was from Here Comes The  in their “How Romantic. 10 Wedding Venues We Have Fallen For.”  The second was “Top 24 Best Barn Venues” on Green Wedding  Oh, to be affirmed in the widening pool of barn venues  is a huge thing for us.  Thank you to all of our brides who have given us such sweet and positive reviews and for your photographers who make us look so good!


  • We had one unique wedding that was more than just a mix of races but with an international flair.  Beyond that it was a truly Southern bride who made sure her wedding not only included all of the southern charm that she had always dreamed about for this day but infused the African heritage to which she was marrying into.  It was not just unique but amazing to see the blend and the bond.


  • We opened up our Mimi’s Guest House by mid-summer 2015.  Converting my mom’s home into guest lodging and wedding day uses was both an act of love but also a creative outlet.  So much of my mother is reflected in the house but quite a bit of my heart and soul as well.  It has been received well and used often.  During off months and weekdays, we offer it on AirBnB so it has been fun and interesting to meet people from all over the whole who come to the area for a few days and are glad to have a country farm refuge to retreat in.


  •  We had our first “destination elopement” ceremony.  No guests.  No reception.  A gorgeous ceremony site – lots of photos – and a honeymoon suite all in the same place.


  •  We had several Bohemian-influenced weddings last year.  They are new and fresh and outside the box…and I love ’em!



  •  We saw a new direction for the ceremony options being initiated by one of our brides.  Sorta near the grove but actually in the lawn….trees in the background but not “under” the grove.


  •  We had a old pick-up truck brought as “an appetizer truck.”  Yep….it was one-of-a-kind.






  •  I am pretty sure that I saw the most amazing cake creation of our five years.  It was a masterpiece.  It was the groom’s cake made to look like a plate full of bacon on a plate sitting on an upside down whiskey barrel half with silverware and a shot glass – all edible!  Don’t know how it tasted because the guest gobbled it up (good sign) but it was certainly a work of art!


  •  Trends?  Most bridesmaid dresses were different colors (generally varying shades of the same color) from each other.  What a pretty and soothing look this is.  I hope this continues – it sure does photograph well.




  •  Trends?  Turquoise seemed to be the color of the year!  It certainly gets my vote.



  •  Trends?  The whole dessert smorgasbord and/or candy bar was a hit this year.   It was certainly fun to see the variety of desserts brought, the selection of candies that are available even now-a-days, the cute presentation of all of these extra desserts, and the giddy look on guests faces when they find out about the amazing variety of delicious foods that awaits them.




and finally….


  •  The new places around the farm that our wonderful photographers seem to find for those amazing shots. Sometimes it is just a new twist on a familiar place. Sometimes we suggest a place and sometimes we are totally surprised.  We never cease to be amazed and often we ask each other “where is this taken”?


So what will this year hold?  I can’t wait to find out!       ~Margie




30 of the Country’s Most Beautiful Barns for Weddings

We were tickled pink last year when we were given the honor of “Top 24 Best Barn Venues” by Green Wedding which is a highly ranked online all-things-weddings website.  Same year we made the “How Romantic: 10 Wedding Venues We’ve Fallen For” by Here Comes the Guide – another online wedding website.  Well – drum roll – we were just notified that we have made the big league… least the online big league.


Country Living has included The Barn at High Point Farms on their “30 of the Most Beautiful Barns for Weddings” list.  Yeah!….Country Living – we adore that magazine. As of right now – I know it is online.  I don’t know yet if there is any hope that it will be published in print or not…but for now – we are still quite giddy at the recognition!


Here is a link to the online Country Living Online Magazine article.  Please check it out.  We are so appreciative of this prestigious honor.  There is much competition in an every growing list of barn venues.  We strive to be unique, to be authentic, to be personal, to be real.  When these bits of credit come our way, it does help to affirm our efforts.   These articles are not created to give exposure to their wedding venue advertisers like so many.  When the local paper or even local magazines tout certain venues – it is because you pay to be on the list.  This particular list was created through a collaboration between those at Country Living and The Venue Report (a prestigious online site that selectively provides information about quality venues through out the world).

So – let us soak it in tonight.  Hopefully you can be thrilled with us.  Many of you who read my blog have been “with us” in spirit for many years…..either because you are friends or you have come here before to a wedding or maybe you are set to come this year to a wedding.  Many of you have been our cheerleaders and our supporters…..we thank you for that.                                                                                                   ~ Margie

P.S.  A big thank you to Bamber Photography for allowing us to use their photograph.

Winter Projects 2015/2016

Where is Waldo?  Well – no Waldo but look closely at this photo taken today.  What do you see?  Front and center – we have those beautiful new farmhouse tables on display on the stage.  Three six-foot tables butt to butt as if they were set for a head table lay out.  The turned post white legs help give a contrast to the floors and the walls.  The rich dark wood tones atop show the beautiful grain of the distressed wood.  I have put my new doily runners on them to show the contrast.  This table would be beautiful with the votives and various table decor atop them.


Look more and what do you see?  Look straight back and you can see that we took out those stalls at the back of the barn.  One stall was the bar (we have moved it elsewhere), one stall was the decor stall (we have moved it elsewhere), and one stall was the chair stalls.  Those have been opened up which gives more space.  We have housed our three original barnwood tables in each of those former stall areas with the olive bucket pendent lights hanging over them.  These tables will live here.  They again can be left as is – with either runners or doilies or if you really prefer, you could order XL tablecloth linens to put on them.  I think they will be the prettiest with some doilies or lace runner….with the table decor.  It will save you money too.  This will give more space to the larger weddings.  It will give more options for the rain scenario indoor wedding options.  It will even give options for the typical bride…..whether this becomes the dessert smorgasbord area…..or a series of photo tables….more space and more options.


The biggie though… my Where is Waldo search for something new… a concreted floor.  Yep – we weighed the pros and cons and decided that the concrete floors would be cleaner – would be easier for all of those women with open toed shoes – and would keep the dust level down as well.  The contractor has just stained and sealed it so we still have a little bit of project completion going on….but so far – we love it!  The staining gives it a deep rich antiquing effect.


Below is a panoramic shot standing in what use to be the decor stall and taking this panoramic shot showing the left open new table area – the red trolley doors – then pans around looking towards the stage area – then past the door opening to the Pear Tree Patio – on around to the open stall again and window where you can actually see a glimpse of the new bar area – we are referring now to it as “The Watering Hole” (picture to come soon).  You can see our funky olive bucket pendent lights which hang over these barnwood tables.


More little changes yet to reveal………………..but for later.





At the end of each year, we reflect over all of the weddings of the year and ponder any changes or improvements that we might want to consider for our Winter Projects List.  We comb over pictures to see if we need to add some landscaping, add a focal point, create a sign, add more lighting, and such.  We weigh the possibilities, debate the pros and cons of a decision, evaluate the budget and timeline, and proceed slowly and carefully.  We are always thinking of ways to improve our venue and to pamper our brides more.  This winter has been no different as we indeed found several projects that we felt worthy to tackle.

Winter is still here and we are still in the middle of our long “to-do-list” so I thought maybe the best way to begin revealing our projects was to do it through this Farm Blog.  As we begin to complete some of the tasks – I will take photos and post them here.  I will just update the blog as we continue to move forward.  As spring approaches – more will be completed.  Landscaping can be completed and we can make a final showcase of all that is new.  Updates of our Barn Layout (in and out) will be added to the Bridal Survival Guide link.  We are so excited about these new changes and we hope you will be too.

First up………….new Farmhouse Tables have been made for the stage area.  We still have our barnwood tables but we are using them elsewhere.  We wanted to elevate our game a bit by making some tables that were nicer – prettier – fancier – but still rustic.  These were built with old wood but we were able to make them pop and come alive.

I gotta thank my husband David for persevering with these tables.  To use the old wood “with character” means a huge challenge in taming them to conform to a table design….but, they were well worth it.  Nothing like old wood….add some stains and a good layer of poly and….well, they are beautiful.  We have made three of them.  This will allow you to again potentially use them for your sweetheart table or for several head tables.  No need for linens (unless you just prefer the look).  Can you imagine some doilies or lace down the middle of these?  They will seat 8 per table – less of course if you butt them together.  They are approximately 6 ft. long and 32 inches wide.

Next update will be soon – within the week, I hope.  Next…….it will be Birdhouses!


Winter weather meant a switcheroo in our work schedule so let me skip the birdhouse and show you an inside project that is virtually completed.


Our infamous stall buffet room has a slight upgrade.  We took the buffet shelf off of the wall.  We created a very long table down the center of the room.  This way it allows two lanes of traffic to run down the buffet line at the same time – making for a quicker process.  Yeah!

barn buffet table

And…..we put a nice large old chandelier overhead to add a bit of light and ambiance.


Now – does anybody notice what is missing?  Yes?   No?  We moved our funky olive bucket pendent lights from this room….but don’t worry – we have a new home for them.   But – that is for another day and another revelation to come.


~ Margie

It Is All About The Details

As I like to state as often as possible, we are so pleased that we have such talented photographers accompany our sweet brides to visually capture their special day.  And so blessed that so often, these photographers not only take many detail shots of our farm/barn/venue but that they happily share these with us to use how we can.  I wanted to share some of these “detail pics” that capture so many of the little things that help to create the mood of our farm.


Thank you to all our talented and generous photographers.                                    ~ Margie

Best of 2015 – Magazine Worthy Pictures of 2015 (Top 20)

Each year I comb through all of the photos from all of our weddings (that have been submitted) to remember, to reflect, to even anguish over selecting what I consider my top picks of the year.  We are so awed by the talent of the photographers who come here to the farm.  Some are our regulars and some are first timers to the farm.  They all certainly do an amazing job as they showcase their bride AND make us look beautiful.  Thanks to all of our brides and photographers who shared their day and their photos with us. There is just something extra special about these photos – an angle, some photographic special effect, a portrait quality to them, the backdrop, the pose, just something creative that stands above the rest.  As you look through them – you can just imagine it showing up in a wedding magazine or some ad for jewelry or cologne…..oh how I wish that were true!  Here we go… no specific order of favor.         (P.S.  Feel free to to comment about which picture you like best!)


“Got My Truck – Will Travel” –  Wow!  Love this one from all sorts of angles.  Love turquoise – so wish I had a truck just like this for my own.  Kelsi is a stunning bride, indeed, but this pose makes her eyes look very melancholy…plus whether by design or by surprise, you can see Kelsi’s reflection in the rear view mirror too.                Caressa Rogers Photography

turquoise bride, vintage outdoor wedding, farm wedding

“Fields of Clover”     Jenny was our Bohemian free spirited type bride.  Her beautiful lace vintage dress was a true fit for her. We suggested to the photographer to head down in the field to take advantage of the field of red clover – a rare opportunity for the clover comes up thick, blooms quickly, then fades away.  This shot with Jenny’s contemplative pose and her vintage laced dress combined all into this awesome shot.                                          In His Image Photography

bride in clover


“The Heavens Proclaim”    This just seems like the ultimate barn wedding photo….it captures it all; Old barn wood, draped white curtains, lights twinkling in the background, old trolley doors, and an adorable bride and groom.  Now I will also say that the photographer certainly captured those magnificent clouds which makes this photo dazzle.          Heather Warnock Photography

by the tucker doors


“The Dress Awaiting The Bride”       I rarely pick a favorites that doesn’t show either the bride or the groom but this one is an exception.  It just seems so artistic.  Lots of colors going on and the vintage flair of the farmhouse comes alive.  The old mirrors hanging on the wall – with one of them capturing the reflection of our infamous “jersey cow” painting…and the distressed turquoise walls of the restroom somehow glow with the wedding dress hanging on the hanger – as if a spotlight were shining on the gown.  This should be an ad for a designer wedding dress boutique.                             Eden Luquire Photography


“Barn Wedding Venue”        Again – this shot seems to capture it all.  This taken in almost the same spot as the earlier photo but the angle is different – so is the bride, groom, and photographer.  This one includes our infamous hitching post and actually shows most of our venue name – always a plus when you need to advertise!  The time of year is a bit different too – showcasing all of that Queen Anne’s Lace flowers in the background and the full flower combinations around the hitching post poll too.                                                                                           Lindsey Edwards Photography


by hitching post

“Engulfed in the Sunflowers”     Brides love the sunflowers and if we could figure out how to have a field of them in bloom all wedding season – we would be tickled pink (tickled yellow?).  Megan and Brett just lucked out. The rich color of the sunflower blossom just captures the attention right off the bat.  Even the foggy glare to this picture just seems to highlight the flowers as they shadow the bride and groom’s kiss.  We are a farm wedding venue even more so than a barn wedding venue….and this certainly seems to shout “farm wedding.”                                                              In His Image Photography

In His Images

“Just You and Me in the Middle of Nowhere”     Many winning combinations here again win the day.  The rich cranberry colored vintage couch – our gorgeous bride and groom with delightful smiles (almost a snicker) on their faces – fields of gently waving gold hay stalks in the background – and sun rays peeping through the trees….all come together – posed right – angle great – expression is perfect by Abby and Matthew.                                 Eden Luquire Photography


by Eden Luquire Photography

“Flower Child”       Kate is certainly no child but she has that whimsical look of the 60’s flower child.  Kate should be a model for she was stunning in virtually every photo in her gallery.  This one pops again because of the great combinations.  First – the close-up version was so much more captivating than the other one which is four feet back.  This close up captures the detailing on the vintage sofa fabric and tufts – the intensity of Kate’s eyes – the specific batch of flowers in her bouquet – each curly strand of her hair – the silky trimmings of her veil – and with the deep green background of the pasture behind her – it strikes gold!                                                Nathan M. Bivens Photography


Nathan M. Bivens Photography

“Pinterest Here I Come”      I am confident that if I post this picture on Pinterest – it will be forever pinned by upcoming brides.  This picture (and the whole gallery actually) should get picked up by one of those on-line wedding blogs.  This picture shows off not only a beautiful happy couple – but you can just tell that this couple had fun on their wedding day!  Kaitllyn’s infectious smile and Brennon’s suspenders & bowtie show off their relaxed attitudes.  With an antiqued tint to this picture and the wagon, quilts, and haybales to set the stage – this photo will win me plenty of “pins” for my collection.        Blue Vinyl Creative

farm wedding, barn wedding, bride groom on haywagon, thank you sign, Blue Vinyl Creative

“Gone With the Wind”        The vines on our Milk-house sure do put on a show even when not in bloom.  The draping vine gives this a whimsical garden effect right off, then add the contrasting red roof trim and the red door plus the bright white arched window – it sets the mood and the stage automatically for this bride and groom pose.  Letting her veil blow in the wind as the final amazing touch.  Kelley’s expression is darn cute too.                                The Connections Photo


The Connections Photo


“Princess For A Day”    Each bride hopefully feels like a princess but often the flower girls feel like that as well.  I don’t remember the relationship between bride Christen with her beautiful flower girl but it must be a special one.  This photo photographic wise has a vintage tint to it….with the early spring greens in the background slightly diluted so that the details of the subjects can be highlighted.  This picture showcases a verb more than an action.  This bride is showing that caring attitude.  It exudes a sweetness about it…..where the brides shares the limelight.                                            Simmons Photography

Simmons Photography


“So I Can Kiss You Anytime I Want”        We have had some stunning vintage vehicles show up at our weddings this year and they all have made some memorable shots as my gallery will attest this year.  The angle of this shot again showcases a barn venue in the background with the lighting adding a blue hue to part of it – adding some needed color to this night time shot.  With some well placed spotlights – Jen and Mike’s kiss are well lit and become the main theme of the photo.  Classic automobile gets its just due but we all are drawn to the bride and groom making out in the back seat!           NB Photography


NB Photography



“Timeless”         Likely the same vehicle as before – this classic car is indeed timeless which is an easy symbolism for a wedding.  This photo actually showcases Beth and John’s wedding theme as well….it was truly an elegant and classy event.  This picture could easily be a wedding ring ad or a men’s suit…..the fall colors in the background add to the floral adorned automobile and Beth looks almost giddy.                                                   Imago Photography


Imago Photography



“Love Is In Bloom”         Same vine but twice each season – it blooms these beautiful dainty white sprigs that are so fitting for a wedding photo backdrop such as this.  All of the white blossoms add to the white wedding dress and Autumn’s extra long bridal veil.  This old vintage sofa that has begun to show wear and tear from all of its uses still puts on a show.  It sets the mood.  The barn red door and cow bell at some accent colors but again….the focal point is Evan kissing his bride.

Jacquie Rives Photography

Jacquie Rives Photography


“Who Will Smile First?”        It is not often that I pick as one of my favorites a photo of strictly the guys.  Why?  They just don’t make a knock out statement like a beautiful bride but when looking for photographic magic – I couldn’t help but be attracted to this shot of the guys – even with their somber faced pose.  This works again because of the unique combinations.  The barn backdrop helps (yep – I am prejudiced there…..) but you then have Joshua and all of his groomsmen.  It actually adds an interesting element in that they all come in different shapes sizes and heights.  If this was a staged photo shoot – I swear they would’ve looked for this sort of variety.  It adds a twist that the groom, Joshua, is in full suit but that his guys adorn their suspenders, bowties, and rolled up sleeves… this combination!  Throw in the magic again of those sunflowers….those well placed sunflowers as if they were Photo-shopped in but of course they were not.                                          Caressa Rogers

Caressa Rogers Photography

“Sneaking Off To the Garden To Kiss”        Wow….this should heat you up.  This perfect pose puts the light onto Autumn and Evan to where they look like they are glowing on the outside as much as they are on the inside.  The rich colors of the fuchsia Cox’s Comb flower on one side and the deep yellow Sunflower on the other….help to make this photo pop.

Jacquie Rives Photography





















bride and groom in garden, The Barn at High Point Farms




“On Top of the World”            We have these special places around the farm that we often suggest to our photographers so they can capture a whole new perspective.  This one puts you high enough above the farm that it takes on the feel of a totally different location.  With Lookout Mountain behind you as your equal – it makes you feel as though you are on top of the world.  The depth that it gives a photo is amazing!  Ken looks all dapper and poses like a pro.  Kelly has actually had some modeling experience and sets her stance very well for this shot.  It has sas and attitude somehow.         Cooper and Co Photos

multicultural wedding, farm wedding, Georgia wedding, The Barn at High Point Farms, Cooper and Co Photography



“Beautiful From Behind”       Oh, to be young again when a photo from behind was as stunning as a photo from the front side!  Kennedy does this angle well.  The black and white version helps showcase the barn door slats – the beautiful veil and ruffled features of her wedding gown – her long curly hair – and Kennedy’s beautiful figure.  I see one or two of these done every year here and this one is one of the nicer ones – the effect, the pose of the hands and arms, and the tint of the outside all done with perfection.                                                                                               Imago Photography



farm wedding, barn wedding




“In the Deep Depths of the Forest”      Photographer, John Shim has the knack of finding the most unimaginable spots around the farm to create the most incredible pictures.  Often times when the gallery is sent to me, it takes me a few moments to figure out where in the heck was he when he took this photo!  This particular angle and whatever funky technique he does to create this foggy backdrop makes it look like he has taken Chandler into the deepest corner of the forest.  The ivy climbing the tree and the crazy limbs of the cedar – all play into the theme here.  Chandler with her many maids in their many shades of blues all add to this soft woodsy chic (is there such a term?) picture.                                             John Shim Photography

row of bridesmaids



“Red Hot Romance”     I have not even seen the full gallery yet of Becca and Phillip yet but this teaser photo definitely caught my eye from the get-go.  I do love these old vehicles….and this truck is a doozie for sure!  Love it.  It sets there by the garden to draw attention but it can’t quite hold a candle to Phillip grabbing Becca for a dramatic dip and kiss.  Between the truck – the pose – and the kiss – this photo is a definitely eye catcher.                                         Tiffany Beth Photo

vintage truck wedding farm wedding garden barn wedding tiffany beth photo





Year End Review – A Sampling From Most of Our Weddings

Wow – 2015 was an amazing year!  Each year we feel more blessed than the year before.  I did not get a gallery from all of my brides (so sad…..weep, weep), but most of the brides (and their photographers) were very generous to share their best wedding photos with us….to show off to our fans, to post on Facebook, and to utilize on our website.  I could not tout our wedding farm without their generosity and to all of our brides who write such sweet reviews for us.  Thank you Thank you!!!

I am compiling my Best of 2015 photos currently but it seems as though this task is getting tougher and tougher each year. So, I wanted this year to show off all of our brides (the ones who have sent me photos, of course) so you can see them all.  Each one was beautiful and special…and cherished by so many family and guests.  Let me show two pictures from each participating brides’ gallery that caught my eye.  Enjoy.



By Eden Luquire Photography


By Jacquie Rives Photography



By Tiffany Beth Photo



By Imago Photography




By  John Shim



By Simmons Photography




By Perfect Capture Photography



By Dotson Photo



By Imago Photography


By Woven and Spun Photography


By NB Photography


By In His Image Photography


By Blue Vinyl Creative


By Angel Wings Photography


By Nathan M. Bivens Photography




By Imago Photography



The Connections Photo



By Cooper and Co. Photo



By Carissa Rogers Photography



By Imago Photography


By Heather Warnock Photography



Unsure who photographer is



By Taylor Fricks Photography



By Kenney Photography



By Finnegan Photography


By Lindsey Edwards Photography



By Suzanne Marie Smith Photography



By Alex Bee Photo



By KC Photography



In His Image Photography




Our Christmas Goat Tale

We often portray our farm as a fantasy land.  Our talented photographers take pictures of our garden, animals, venue, and everything and make it look portrait ready.  My husband labors all week to make the grounds beautiful.  There is much behind the scene that is done to make wedding day dazzle.  But reality is that we are a real farm – a real place – real people  and life on the farm is often complicated – often a struggle – and often burdened with reality.  Let me jump right in and tell you the true story – our Christmas goat tale.

We tried last year “goat family planning”.  I can hear you guys laughing already.  But without intervening into the breeding habits of our goats – a male goat would get every single female pregnant in a week’s time…..which means all of our baby goats would be born within a week of each other.  This not  only is overwhelming but it robs the chance from many of our brides to take their own “baby goat pictures.”  We do like to spread the love so we thought we would intervene and dose out on a regimen the access of our billy goat to the females to solve this dilemma.  A baby goat or two born each month meant that “Lucky” (our billy) could get lucky twice a month.  This would allow Lucky to have female companionship in a segregated pasture for a whole month and in a pasture FAR AWAY from the eyes of the guests at the venue.  We didn’t want “those kind of pictures” in the backdrop of our wedding photos!  But, try as we might – Lucky escaped one day……ONE DAY…..and got into the pasture full of our “maids in waiting”.  It is a lesson of “where there is a will there is a way”.  With gestation of a goat at 5 months… was several months later that we discovered not one….not two…but four goats had been impregnated but this mere one day escape.  How lucky can one billy get?

Unfortunately the calendar circumstance of this all meant that these babies would be born at Christmas time.  No – not in the fall where our many brides could’ve enjoyed the selection.  No – not in the spring of the year where the pastures would be green and full but in the busy hectic schedule of Christmas.  And so it was determined – and so they did begin to deliver.  A few days prior to Christmas – female one delivers two gorgeous babies.  Fortunately the warm spell meant no fretting over potentially chilled babies.  The following day the second girl delivers two babies.  Again – the warm weather was a nice relief.  In fact – the rest of the herd ventured off to look for greener pastures.  And  you all know – “that greener pastures are always found on the other side” which meant that the goats found a way over the fence.  Luck had it that I was heading out the driveway and happened to look southeasterly and spotted what I swear was a goat in the far distance.  Surely not!  Surely, actually.  Gave a quick call to Jill and made a u-turn and headed to the goat barn.  Goats were gone and looked like they were headed to the golf course – heavens help us if they made it that far off!  Now being a farm girl and having goats that know my voice……I belted out a very very loud…..and very familiar “BaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaBies!   Baaaaaaaaaaaaaabies!  I am confident most valley residents heard my call but more importantly – my sweet but wayward goats heard me as well.  They turned direction and began heading home.  I had sloshed through the wetlands just in case but they kept heading home and met me in route.  At least that….at least they came when called.  We all headed to the barn where they were rewarded with feed.  They were contained in the paddock…and I, with muddy boots, headed towards my delayed appointment.

Christmas Eve.  I ventured to the goat barn to check on the baby goats and assumed that I would find a new batch of babies.  Nope….not this time.  Weather was warm – almost hot – grounds were mushy – and we knew that rains were coming later, so the decision to let the goats out “for a bit” seemed doable.  I eventually headed to the creek pasture to check on them around 11 a.m.  This is when I took our Rudolph pictures….for my annual posts about seeing Rudolph.  Hombre’ seemed to enjoy the antlers this year.  So I took a slew of them and watched the goats head up the hill into the privet laden woods.

I headed back to post pictures.  Christmas Eve there was much to do before the evening came.  Both Jill and I both were consumed by chores….and so checking back on the goats scooted further back.  It was around 3 p.m. before I headed back.  I again found those wayward goats of mine on the neighboring pasture but just barely.  They again responded quickly to my holler and came a-running.  I got everybody situated again.  In the hubbub of it all – we did not notice that we were one short.  Not just one short – but one “pregnant and due soon” female short.  Well, we both darted off to Christmas Eve events…and if you remember – that is the evening that the next deluge of rain began as well.  All Christmas Eve, all that night – all day Christmas Day….it rained – it poured – it flooded – it gully washed – it was a goat floater – it was historic. (Get the picture?….lots and lots of rain.)

I had actually popped down to the barn twice that day – quickly – just to double check on the babies and such.  The rain was so intense – and my schedule so tight – no lingering was even pondered.  Quick checks – gave out some books of hay and some feed but headed back to the house for festivities.  After a long day, I was actually bathed and in bed by 9:30 p.m. when Jill gave me a call as she was headed home from her in-laws. She asked if I had “done goats” and I said – last check was 5 p.m. so you might oughta check on them before you head to your house.  She quickly got back to me that we were missing one goat……(missing String Bean who was due.)  Jill and John walked around the barn several times looking in every corner – in and out of the barn.  No String Bean anywhere.  The awful truth was that if she was not there – then she was likely not there on Christmas Eve when the goats came from across the fence towards home either.  This gut wrenching fact painted the picture all too clearly that she had evidently gone into labor sometime earlier on Christmas eve – either while up in the woods on the hill or across the fence into the neighboring pastures.  Worse yet was that she had delivered alone…without the protection of the herd (or Bear – our guard dog) – and had endured 36 hours of historic rains and floods.  Jill and John  had looked towards the creek but not only was the whole lowland flooded from hillside to hillside but the water was almost over the bridge.  There was no way to go looking in the rain in the dark for a missing goat.  Needless to say – I was very restless all night long imaging the worse.  What would I find – if I could find her?  Would I find a half eaten carcass?…..a half-dead goat who had incurred birthing difficulties?……I totally drenched and feverish Moma goat standing over two drenched dead babies?  Sorry – my mind was imagining it all and my descriptions only paint a picture for you of the realities that we often face here on the farm.

Morning eventually came and as you know – not only another warm warm day but the sun was out – the rain had scooted off to hammer some other part of the country.  But for now – a beautiful sunny day that would allow me to start my search without serious impediment.  I drove my buggy (golf cart) down towards the creek. Fortunately the water had rescinded enough that the road was not flooded and the bridge passable.  Both sides of the pasture looked like the rice fields of china but with slosh boots – it would be doable.  I could either hike up into the woods or slosh through the swamp lands towards my neighbors property.  Before I had to make that commitment – I just happened to look southward and see a white image.  Could it be?  Yes – I could faintly see the image of a goat grazing.  It was too far away to see anything else but I sent off a quick call to Jill.  She brought down her new all-terrain vehicle and it maneuvered the swamps easily.  It took us only to the fence line but even I was able to find a place to cross over and we headed towards String Bean.  The closer we came we could see she had not just one baby but two.  She was seemingly grazing without a care in the world – enjoying the green tender grass and the warmth of the sun on her back.  The two babies seemed no worse for the wear.  Two happy and healthy and actually – relatively dry sweet baby goats!  We carried babies and coaxed String Bean to follow as we trekked back over the hills through the woods over the fence – loaded them all into “Big Red” (the all-terrain vehicle) and took them back home to their nice warm stall.


Noah (for enduring the big flood) and Molly (for the Unsinkable Molly Brown who survived the sinking of the Titanic) are back on dry land and at home – no cares in the world.  If only goats could talk – maybe the story would’ve been more interesting.  I will say that because of the deluge of rain – the coyotes were surely held up in some cave somewhere.  Because of the deluge of rain – it probably diluted the smell of after-birth so that the coyotes had no idea that a potential feast was just over the hill.  My inclination is to believe that String Bean was just beginning to go into labor on Christmas Eve just about the time that I discovered that the herd was over the fence – then hollered – then the rest of the herd came running home.  I think that she was likely able to deliver her babies without incident and in the relatively dry pasture before the night set in and the rains began again.  I tend to think that she found her way back with her newborn babies slowly following her towards a hollow (we say it as “holler” here in the south) where there was a run down open-air shed barn.  I think that they huddled enough under an old tractor in this half usable shed – enough that they spent their first 24 hours mostly sleeping through the storms and nursing as they would in any location.  I think that of all the scenarios – this was the most fortunate.  I will say that it was our own Christmas miracle… simple as it was.  The odds were certainly not in String Beans favor nor her newborns but for the last of the Lucky offspring – these babies did get a bit of luck from their father.

Later that day – final moma goat had her baby out in the field – OUR FIELD!  For we will not be so trusting in our goats wayward inclinations again so soon.  Fortunately for our spring brides – we do have a few girls that are pregnant and hopefully – will be due this spring…right on cue!                                                                       ~ Margie

Page 4 of 15« First...23456...10...Last »